introducing:
Self-promotion for people who hate self-promotion
Join 300+ women and LGBTQIA+ professionals who are gaining respect, recognition, and real opportunities—
in their workplaces, causes, communities, and industries.
No Stanford degree required. No straight-white-cis networking needed.
No being on all the platforms.
No fakey fake AI posts.
Just your steady brilliance finally getting its due.
I started landing (paid) opportunities I’d never had in my career.
This program gave me the roadmap on what in the world to actually do so that I would get recognized and approached.
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Build your reputation without the cringe.
Stay aligned with your personality + values
So the right people find you, trust you, and open doors for you.
YOUR ROADMAP
the method
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TESTIMONIALS
how it works
aka How promotions-reluctant women and LGBTQIA+s
build visibility without the fake self-promo.
Taj M. Smith (He/Him)
Amy Albertson (She/Her)
Frankie Coelho (They/Them)
Angelina Caceres
Dr. Konjit Page (She/her)
Rafael Moises (They/Them, He/Him)
Ellie Barclay (She/Her)
Juniper Waller (She/Her)
Cathryn McClellan Kelly (She/her)
Tiff Kwan (Any/All Pronouns)
Mira Stern (She/They)
Topanga Turk (She/her)
your reputation is your
safety net.
REsults:
"Just got confirmation I'm going to be in The New York Times Sunday print Opinion section!!!!! You, your thought leader program, and all the amazing people in those groups is such a part of why I had the idea and confidence to write it/send it!! Thank you!! "
Laura B Kasper, PhD
Psychologist for High-Achievers
Femily
she/they
YOUR COACH
KNOWN AS
"Silicon Valley's
Gender/Inclusion Advisor"
Founder of the
continually
SOLD OUT programs
"Future Thought Leader" + "How to Get Clients without Selling Out or Burning Out"
ON CALL EXPERT to
MEDIA OUTLETS from
The Washington Post to ABC News
Paid keynote speaker,
commanding $7000-15,000 a talk.
p.s. Flagrant anti-racist feminist and
flamboyant queer ally of trans folks.
Actual students (not Stock imagery):
WHO IS THIS FOR?
WOMEN +/or QUEER/TRANS FOLKS WHO
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Want to cash in on your wisdom/experience, yet need a roadmap.
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Feel a touch jealous of peers getting consulting/speaking/paid opportunities. (Or wonder how they did it.)
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Want more confidence sharing your story + work.
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Yearn for more traction for your name / work / cause.
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Crave the power of a hype squad to keep you going.
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Are overwhelmed (or underwhelmed lol) by the social media jungle.
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Secretly dream of being "someone people turn to."
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Are ready to kick imposter syndrome to the curb.
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Seek a gentle push towards your goals.
STILL NOT SURE IF THIS IS FOR YOU?
what you get
1 Buzzy
Support
Community
The digital Workbook +
Your Custom Roadmap
21 video lessons
by femily + Guests
7 Live Coaching sessions by femily
I STARTED THIS PROGRAM
BECAUSE I WAS SICK OF
marginalized people GETTING OVERLOOKED.
Specifically, I was pissed off at seeing
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leaders + founders being mostly pale/male,
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women and lbgtqais being made to feel too unready to lead/start things
- men getting selected 10x more often for (paid) keynote talks and quoted 80% of the time in the news,
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queer/trans folks being overlooked (except on LBGTQAI+ topics)
FROM FEMILY:
Once I became known as a thought leader, it became
MUCH easier to attract
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corporate + individual clients
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paid speaking gigs
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the kind of media attention I craved
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respect + INVITES from those in my field
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Quietly freaking out about your future?
You’re not alone.
(And you don’t have to stay stuck—or keep waiting for opportunities.)
→ In 7 weeks, Future Thought Leader gives you a clear plan, smart structure, and a reputation-building project that puts you back in control.
No corny social posts.
No fluffy self-promo.
Just you getting seen for the good work you've already been doing. On your terms.
What doesn’t work:
Waiting until you're "ready" (the patriarchy will never let us feel ready).
Being on more than 2 socials.
Waiting to be discovered.
Doing it alone.
What does:
Respecting your energy, your industry, and this (scary) moment.
Making/launching something concrete (a talk series, a checklist, a newsletter, an industry org, a local change campaign) so people can trust you via what you’re building.
Saying yes - when it's a little scary. (And no when it's TOO scary).
Using your platform to inspire change.
Rising with others.
In this program, you kick off
something you’ll become known for.
our alums :
(real examples)
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BECAME PAID COACHES + CONSULTANTS
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WROTE A GUIDE TO GETTING THEY/THEM PRONOUNS RIGHT
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GOT INVITED TO BE AN IVY LEAGUE ADJUNCT PROFESSOR.
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GOT A MAJOR US NEWSPAPER TO PUBLISH A 4000 word APOLOGY TO THE BLACK COMMUNITY
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FOUNDED A TEE SHIRT BUSINESS PROMOTING BIRACIAL WOMEN
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DID A RECIPE BOOK ON PLANT-BASED EATING FOR BUSY FAMILIES
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RAISED AWARENESS AT THEIR COMPANY ON trauma informed workplaces
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TALKED BACK TO HER INDUSTRY AS A HOMELESS ADVOCATE WHO IS ALSO A REALTOR
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SPOKE ON A PANEL ABOUT BEING A TRANSGENDER DAD
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RAPIDLY GREW REPUTATION AS A SEX-POSITIVE LEADER FOR THE QUEER-CURIOUS
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SOLD OUT DIGITAL COURSES ON ANTI-RACISM FOR TEACHERS
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TRIPLED THEIR IG #S BY GOING "PUBLIC" AS A DEI CONSULTANT
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LAUNCHED A SITE TO SHARE HER JOURNEY- A "TRANSITION WITHOUT TEARS"
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CREATED A PODCAST FOR SOUTH ASIAN FEMINISTS + QUEERS
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GAVE THEIR PERSPECTIVE ON PBS ON CLIMATE CHANGE anxiety
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LAUNCHED A NONPROFIT + FUND FOR EQUITY + BLACK VISIBILITY IN THE ARTS
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GOT THEIR WRITING featured by the LinkedIn News Team
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MADE THE NEW YORK TIMES OPINION SECTION
YOU ALWAYS GET A
SUPER-DIVERSE COHORT.
(+ SO QUEER.)
CAN YOU MAKE IT?
7 LIVE meetings
2025 Dates:
Mondays
12-1Pm PST / 3-4pm EST
August 4
August 11
August 18
August 25
September 1
September 8
September 15
Start now.
Sign up + get instant access to the methodology: via the workbook, video lessons, and community—so when live calls start, you’ll already be grounded and confident in the materials.
THIS IS not for you if...
You're already making a bunch of money via
a major platform (sorry, Oprah!)
+/or
if your name-branded webinars keep winning trophies.
(RECORDED)
guest LECTURERS
THE FEMILY program PROMISE
DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE "HOW"
We'll help you figure that out in the program.
From starting your podcast/newsletter, to getting more journalists to interview you, to getting asked to do paid speaking gigs.
SIMPLE EASE. My goal is for you to find one platform for your voice/ideas that energizes you. Not multiple platforms. If factual white papers are your thing, maybe skip Instagram. If drawing political comics lights up your cozy introversion, do that instead of stage speeches.
IMPERFECT BABYSTEPS in ACTION.
Get moving in the right direction. (And don't listen to anyone who promises you immediate fame.)
COLLABORATION OVER COMPETITION. Bonus points for lifting each other up, inviting each other onto a podcast, sharing the spotlights.
Cohorts have always been at least half POC + QUEER/trans and lots of folks who are both. :)
NO MEAN GIRLS (of any gender).
NON-BINARY pals: OF COURSE welcome. all names + pronouns welcome!
NO ROOM FOR WHITE FRAGILITY.
(I assist white+ pals offline with race questions- to preserve the airtime and energy of BIPOC.)
INTROVERT-HONORING MEETINGS. (There's a silent camera's off breakout for those who want to be silent/mute/self-directed in class that day.)
AMPLIFY YOUR
respect
CHANGE YOUR LIFE
CHANGE THE
WORLD
Hey, trouble-maker,
WHAT QUESTIONS DO YOU HAVE?
XOXO,
FEMILY
